So I built the thing I kept looking for and never found.
I am Jordi. I am from Barcelona and twelve years ago I moved to Copenhagen. Married to a Dane, two kids, a job in banking. The passport took all twelve.

years before my passport arrived
apps across Europe
countries covered between them
Denmark gave me a life I could not have built anywhere else. I am grateful for it. None of what follows is a complaint.
It is the part nobody warns you about. Belonging is not handed to you. You earn it in years and those years are counted by rules that do not bend for anyone.
The rules are not hidden either. They are published and anyone can read them. What nobody does is put them together and tell you, plainly, where you stand today. So for a long stretch I could not have said what a parking fine would cost me or whether one long summer in Barcelona would quietly set my clock back.
You end up guessing. You ask a friend who guessed before you. You find a forum thread from four years ago and hope it still holds.
Meanwhile every day of residence counts. Every test. Every requirement. There is no shortcut and no version of this where the waiting quietly disappears. There are millions of us across Europe in the middle of it right now and most of us are guessing.

The hardest part was not the tests. It was not knowing how much longer I had to go.
That is what Belong Europe is for. You should be able to look it up.

Not long after the ceremony I sat in the Spanish embassy here and signed a form to keep my Spanish nationality. Spain lets you keep it, but only if you say so in writing and only inside a set window. Miss the window and it is gone. Nobody sends a reminder.
It is the same problem wearing a different hat. The rule is published, the deadline is real and you only find out if you go looking for it.
What the law requires, what you have already met and what is still standing between you and a decision.
Residence time, the language and citizenship tests, every requirement the country sets. Nothing simplified away to make the number look kinder.
The years you have already lived count. The waiting you cannot rush is shown as exactly that: waiting. No invented finish dates.
The one thing that is actually in your hands today, rather than a list of twelve.
When a date cannot honestly be known, the app says so instead of making one up.
Every app works the same way, tuned to one country's rules.
Belong Nordic also runs in any browser: open the web app.
I started Belong Europe by tracking my own road to a Danish passport. It is eight apps and eleven countries now, the same idea in each.
If you are somewhere in the middle of it too, wherever in Europe, one of them was built for you.
A question, a correction or just how it is going where you are.
hello@belongeurope.com